There is a life hack on this most women outside the English-speaking world know about. You can date older, unmarried men. Many of them want a wife, and they are too tired to fight over stupid stuff. Search for a man, outside of dating apps, that is ten to 15 years older than you but has the character and values you seek. That is the one who will both want to marry you AND be a good husband.
The values part is key. Do not waste time with silly stuff (height, shared interests, ...). I would also recommend getting out of London. London and New York (as well as Paris and others) are soul-destroying wastelands of corporate and government greed and power. If your goal is anything other than getting rich or starting wars, leave. If you want urban, Manchester, Leeds, Glasgow, they are all good, although I think Edinburgh and Cardiff are special. I would probably want those first, hen Manchester or Glasgow, or Leeds frankly. I personally would want to go small town, but not until after I were married (of course I am already married, but I did high-tail it out of New York).
Unfortunately leaving London is not possible for me at present. It is also tougher to meet people outside of dating apps. I have done both online and offline dating and found not much difference.
There is a life hack on this most women outside the English-speaking world know about. You can date older, unmarried men. Many of them want a wife, and they are too tired to fight over stupid stuff. Search for a man, outside of dating apps, that is ten to 15 years older than you but has the character and values you seek. That is the one who will both want to marry you AND be a good husband.
The values part is key. Do not waste time with silly stuff (height, shared interests, ...). I would also recommend getting out of London. London and New York (as well as Paris and others) are soul-destroying wastelands of corporate and government greed and power. If your goal is anything other than getting rich or starting wars, leave. If you want urban, Manchester, Leeds, Glasgow, they are all good, although I think Edinburgh and Cardiff are special. I would probably want those first, hen Manchester or Glasgow, or Leeds frankly. I personally would want to go small town, but not until after I were married (of course I am already married, but I did high-tail it out of New York).
Unfortunately leaving London is not possible for me at present. It is also tougher to meet people outside of dating apps. I have done both online and offline dating and found not much difference.